You Can't Take it With You - Jane and Mike Tomlinson

I read this book and wrote a review for an assignment a few months ago. So I was saddened to learn recently that Jane passed away on 3rd September.

You Can’t Take It With You, the second book by Jane and Mike Tomlinson, describes the courageous and adventurous fund raising activities for their own charity ‘jane’s appeal’. Diagnosed with terminal breast cancer in 2000, Jane was determined to demonstrate how not to give in to a six-month prognosis.

In their first book, The Luxury of Time, the Tomlinson’s from Leeds, retell the years between Jane’s initial diagnosis at age 26, to celebrating her 40th birthday early. Between them Jane and Mike, in alternate chapters, give an honest account of her treatments and remission of the disease, through to the devastating news of her terminal status being told to their three children. At that point Jane and Mike were determined to demonstrate that 'death does not arrive with the prognosis'. Jane's running and cycling achievements from 2001 to 2004 are retold to raise awareness, raise funds and raise hopes for cancer patients and their relatives.

You Can’t Take It With You continues their story, including a mammoth John O'Groats to Lands End cycle ride on a tandam with her brother, Luke. Following that length of Britain ride, they embarked on, from ‘Rome to Home’, travelling through Italy and France, fulfilling one of Jane's ambitions to cycle up the slopes of Mount Ventoux, one of the hardest climbs on the Tour de France. Arriving in Paris they indulged in the luxury of the ambassador's residence, depite their unconventional appearance in cycling attire. Crossing the Channel they still had the long haul back up to Leeds to complete, but their tumultuous welcome outside Leeds City Hall quickly swept away emotions of the two-month grueling experience.

Jane announced her intention to take part in a full ironman triathlon, in Florida on completion of a British triathlon with her two daughters. This event, combines swimming, cycling and running, but during training for the full ironman she had a distastrous time in a half ironman in France and almost withdrew from the challenge. The final event readers get to share with them is a staggering 3700-mile coast-to-coast cycle ride across the USA in summer 2006.

Written in a similar style to their first book, Jane and Mike now alternate their personal narratives within each chapter, sometimes giving separate and different perspectives of the same event. Some of the dialogues include strong language, which I found hard to read, but it does add realism and reinforce the severe pain Jane experienced, particularly towards the end of the book.

The descriptive sections of the long cycle rides in UK, Italy, France and USA made enjoyable reading, and together with the colour photographs in the centre of the book, provide light relief to its serious subject matter. The funny and sometimes heart-rending accounts involving their children were helpful in understanding what it must be like to live with cancer on a day-to-day basis.

The title, You Can't Take it With You, is an poignant pun on Jane’s predicament, but actually relates to a Tomlinson family expression in reply to the question “May I leave the table?”

The Tomlinson family have my great admiration. Although Jane retired from competition at the end of 2006, she planned and organised the Leeds 10k 'Run For All' event in June this year. Her many sporting awards and public recognition, including a CBE from the Queen, together with the lasting legacy of the annual 'Run For All' event, will ensure that her achievements and bravery continue to inspire and motivate future generations. Their story was a personal reminder to improve to my own personal fitness. Their charity has raised around 1.5 million pounds and supported the work of numerous cancer related charities.